I wanna cry. I just cannot believe it. I don't know what to do to convince them to come back and stay. I miss my sassy self. I miss that womyn who KNEW that her love was 'the business'. That womyn who walked into a room with confidence because she knew what she carried with her; good or bad, she had a sense of her worth and didn't feel less than anyone. Now, don't get me wrong, I know when someone else has something going on to which I cannot hold a candle, and I admire that in others. I think its wonderful. My value was not diminished by any one else's light! I knew that if I fell in love with someone, they were getting a full, beautiful and passionate love. My space was worth being in. I knew that when I went to work at anything, the instruments I needed were finely tuned.
Somewhere along the way, I left those finely tuned instruments out in the rain. I neglected myself. I lost something. Now, I am
I'm not trying to have a pity party. Just need to get this out. And since I am the only person reading this, it may make me feel better to just get it out. I am not the person I was 3-5 years ago. I know I should change, but it's supposed to be for the better. Isn't it?
I feel that I have lost everything. The sexy, sassy, confident, good girl/bad girl I used to be is no longer here. Believe me, I keep searching. Should I offer a reward? It would be worth it. I must have done something to deserve this, but for the life of me I cannot think of anything for which I haven't apologized.
No, I am not as low as I was a few months ago, but I have to keep reminding myself that I am still raw. There are few, precious few spots that aren't raw. The healing is long and hard. This is my coldest winter ever.
If anyone finds my inner Mae West and Bettie Page, my Mama-Mojo, please send them home.